Relationship Therapy NYC

Relationship Counseling in New York

Even the best relationships go through rough patches. Your relationship however has started to feel rough most (if not all) of the time. You need help thinking this out but your usual go to people just can’t be objective about this or are through hearing about this.

It’s not a weakness to ask for help!

In art, the media and IRL relationships you see how difficult it can be to make a partnership work long-term. Our society loves to romanticize tumultuous relationships so you were raised on a steady diet of Disney fairy tales and rom-coms, convincing you that love is supposed to be painful. It. Is. NOT.

Online therapy for adults in NY + NJ

The reality is, all relationships take effort, but it shouldn't feel like a never-ending battle. Maybe it was challenging to feel heard or respected growing up, causing you to mask your true self and your needs. We’re going to start by talking about your boundaries and self-care, then get into what has been coming up in your relationship. To be clear, this is individual therapy where you will be able to discuss what has been happening in your partnership(s), not couples or marital therapy where the two of you attend a session together. I’m here to help you decide what the next best step is for you, how you can be clear and communicative about your needs, and to ensure you’re not settling or being disrespected.

Getting started isn’t as scary as you think!

The fear of being seen as too much, a complainer or whining has been holding you back. But you've silenced your inner voice, ignored your instincts and brushed your needs aside for too long! I’m Desiree, a licensed therapist from NYC, specializing in attachment, helping adults navigate relationship difficulties for well over a decade.

Heal and thrive with a therapist from Brooklyn

With body acceptance, gender affirming, health at every size, sex-positive and kink-allied perspectives, we will build a foundation of trust you can ground yourself with as you unpack the dynamics that have led to this point. You’ll become equip with strategies for setting and maintaining limits, assessing how you’re really feeling without gaslighting yourself and trusting the decisions you make without hesitation or a stamp of approval from others.

What to expect in NYC Attachment-Based Therapy

Expect a comfortable, supportive environment where you can share your progress, setbacks, and goals. I'll help you forgive yourself, make peace with your past and rediscover your passions. Our weekly 45-50 minute phone or video sessions will continue until you achieve your goals and feel steady maintaining your gains.

Book your free 15-minute consultation call now to start untangling where things have gotten sticky!

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Frequently asked questions about breakup therapy in NY + NJ:

  • I work with emerging adults 18+ who are looking for virtual mental health support while living in NY or NJ. I specialize in anxiety, trauma, depression, life transitions and chronic stress.

  • During our 15-minute consultation, it's like speed-dating but for therapy. We'll chat about our compatibility and how I can be your mental health wingwoman. We'll discuss the services I can offer you based on your unique circumstances and location. You can ask me any burning questions you have about my services, training, and overall vibe. Then, we'll set our first date, and you'll receive some introductory paperwork to speed things up in the therapy room. And if, by chance, I feel you'd hit it off better with another clinician, I'm the ultimate matchmaker.

  • Our first virtual session is like the opening scene of a movie - it sets the stage for the journey ahead. We'll delve into topics we discussed in our consultation call, but don't worry, you're in control. If you're not ready to spill all your secrets, no pressure. We'll focus on stabilization, trust-building, and selecting our first goals of therapy. Sometimes an hour just isn't enough, so we'll continue to unpack and practice new coping skills in follow-up sessions.

  • At the start, we'll be seeing each other weekly. This helps us build a strong connection as we embark on your wellness journey. Once you've achieved your goals and are feeling like the star you are, we'll discuss reducing the frequency of our sessions. For our seasoned clients, meetings can be dialed back to every other week. And when it's time to move on from therapy, we'll meet for monthly check-ins. You can always return to therapy as life throws new challenges your way.

  • I'm not currently in cahoots with any insurance plans, but I've got your back. I provide discreet documentation for out-of-network reimbursement. Many insurance companies offer reimbursement for out-of-network providers, so you can get a chunk of your therapy fees back, typically 60-80%.

  • Payments are processed electronically via credit, debit, HSA, or FSA cards. We're all about saving time and keeping your data safe, so payments and appointments are handled through our secure client portal.

  • We like to keep things transparent. Our initial consultation is a complimentary 15-minute discovery call. After that, it's $250 for our initial assessment session and $200 for follow-up sessions.

  • The NYC therapy scene is like no other. Availability is limited, in-network providers are few and far between, and rates can be eye-watering. It's a tough nut to crack. Many clinics have high caseloads and a revolving door of therapists. Plus, big tech platforms advertise "affordable" online therapy by exploiting newbie therapists, compromising privacy, and favoring shareholder profits. It's a tough gig, but rest assured, I'm here to make a difference.

  • The duration of our therapy tango is a little tricky to predict. It depends on various factors, like the severity of the issue, how long you've been wrestling with it, and your willingness to participate. I'm no wallflower in this dance; I'm an active participant. You won't find vague self-discovery prompts here. We'll be crystal clear, focusing on strategies to reduce stress, challenge negative thoughts, and achieve an abundance mindset. I respect your time and will only use methods that have proven to make a difference.

  • If you ever feel that our therapy tango isn't hitting the right notes, let's talk about it. We'll discuss what's not clicking and if there's a better-suited clinician or approach for you. No hard feelings, we're all about finding your perfect match!

  • Private pay is your golden ticket if you're uninsured, under-insured, or simply want more control over your therapy. You call the shots on frequency, duration, and style without questioning what could be done with your data.

  • Ah, the length of our sessions, you ask? Well, our first rendezvous, an assessment and introduction, will sweep you off your feet for one glorious hour. Follow-up sessions are shorter, lasting 45-50 minutes. EMDR sessions, on the other hand, are a tad more demanding, taking 90 minutes. Longer sessions can be scheduled if you prefer or believe it'll add a little extra sparkle to our work.

  • We offer morning, mid-day and evening sessions during the week.