Relationship Therapy NYC
Relationship Counseling in New York
Even the best relationships go through rough patches. Your relationship however has started to feel rough most (if not all) of the time. You need help thinking this out but your usual go to people just can’t be objective about this or are through hearing about this.
It’s not a weakness to ask for help!
In art, the media and IRL relationships you see how difficult it can be to make a partnership work long-term. Our society loves to romanticize tumultuous relationships so you were raised on a steady diet of Disney fairy tales and rom-coms, convincing you that love is supposed to be painful. It. Is. NOT.
Online therapy for adults in NY + NJ
The reality is, all relationships take effort, but it shouldn't feel like a never-ending battle. Maybe it was challenging to feel heard or respected growing up, causing you to mask your true self and your needs. We’re going to start by talking about your boundaries and self-care, then get into what has been coming up in your relationship. To be clear, this is individual therapy where you will be able to discuss what has been happening in your partnership(s), not couples or marital therapy where the two of you attend a session together. I’m here to help you decide what the next best step is for you, how you can be clear and communicative about your needs, and to ensure you’re not settling or being disrespected.
Getting started isn’t as scary as you think!
The fear of being seen as too much, a complainer or whining has been holding you back. But you've silenced your inner voice, ignored your instincts and brushed your needs aside for too long! I’m Desiree, a licensed therapist from NYC, specializing in attachment, helping adults navigate relationship difficulties for well over a decade.
Heal and thrive with a therapist from Brooklyn
With body acceptance, gender affirming, health at every size, sex-positive and kink-allied perspectives, we will build a foundation of trust you can ground yourself with as you unpack the dynamics that have led to this point. You’ll become equip with strategies for setting and maintaining limits, assessing how you’re really feeling without gaslighting yourself and trusting the decisions you make without hesitation or a stamp of approval from others.
What to expect in NYC Attachment-Based Therapy
Expect a comfortable, supportive environment where you can share your progress, setbacks, and goals. I'll help you forgive yourself, make peace with your past and rediscover your passions. Our weekly 45-50 minute phone or video sessions will continue until you achieve your goals and feel steady maintaining your gains.